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2 golden rules in human interactions & convincing

2 golden rules in human interactions & convincingEdit

 
 
1. IF you don't want something to do (for yourself), e.g. you don't want to drink alcohol.

You say you don't drink (in declarative way). Without supplying any reason.
If someone asks you "why" questions – just reply: "because no". On single each of them, always.

Why is this important?
Well, it's very obvious – by supplying a reason you're facing yourself with a risk that it could be argument against it and somebody would give you logical (or emotional) reasoning why it's not true / not good idea and could convince you to doing something which you don't want to do. Reason for that is that people like to be logical and want to look (subconsciously) for others also logical. However you understand that you perhaps don't do anything much against you're will (job?), although there are sometimes situations where you didn't wanted to do something and you've did (which was probably bad for you in the long term and you've did it, despite you'd know it was wrong choice).

Remember about this tip and use it on daily basis.



Next rule is inverse: when you're asking somebody (anybody) to do anything for you – you always supply the logical (emotional) reason. However it doesn't need to be logical at all. What counts is only the need to supply it. It could be asking your friend to borrow you money or asking the person to let you go first in the queue in shop.

On the effects you get → very important is your confidence (body language, tone of voice, inner stand etc.). For me personally I'd would recommend also HYPNOSIS (or rather it is in the #1 place).

It's important.

What you also need to know is knowing and choosing respectively the people which whom you associate. If you would associate with alcoholics → you would probably start to drink alcohol over time; if you would associate with people who use amphetamines → you would very probably end using it, after time. If you would associate with failures → you would become a failure and would probably never make something remarkable, because they would not allow (mostly) you to do, until you would not change the environment. You would understand it, about what I'm talking about when you would really change the type & quality of the people type you associate with.

You must watch & observe what people achieve and where they go. It could be done in a 5 minute talk and I could predict personal financial position & power for the rest of his life (to be clear: his future). Watch you're environment and seek for the proactive people → doers in the society. Avoid the unhappy & unlucky, because you would become one. Avoid & ignore the complainers. Associate with people which represent what you want to become. At all cost.

“ There is everywhere risk when doing anything (especially new), but the biggest risk is not to do anything at all.” (about business)
Andrzej 'AndyPSV' Jeziorski
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Comment · pm1  · 9 months ago
<AndyPSV> @Dopler: jesli bys spytal czemu i skad ta nagla zmiana, to mysle ze wszystko zostalo wyjasnione w
artykule (na samym dole):
http://path-of-power.com/how-start-to-hate-drugs-alcohol-tobacco-equal-=-quit,312
<AndyPSV> cpanie czy picie nigdy nie prowadzi do niczego, wiec jesli cos mnie nie przybliza do mego celu to
znika z mego zycia, w chwili obecnej; aczkolwiek czasem trzeba odsapnac i tez sie zabawic, aby
zachowac rownawage; nie moge pic alkoholu ze wzgledu na kamienie nerkowe; natomiast co do maki to na
stale znikla z mego zycia, trawy nie pale bo nienawidze, natomiast inne chemikalia nie sa dostepne u
mnie w miescie i generalnie to nie warto ich brac; mysle, ze juz temat narkotykow mam za soba,
jednak czas to zweryfikuje
<Dopler> Na jak długo ?Na tydzień,czy 10 dni ?
<AndyPSV> przestalem.
<Dopler> ta, i napisał to koleś który chleje piwo za piwem i napierdala amfe w nos.Jak jesteś taki
mądry to czemu sam ćpasz krechy i pizgasz piwo za piwem ? – Andrzej Jeziorski  2 months ago · Reply
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