pre-title:
The unknown knowledge about connecting with opposite sex (relationships).
No experience, although its not required.
There are few things which you need to know before engaging into any relationship at all, until you want to be happy in it. In this article I would put some knowledge which may be useful for your purpose in order to get to know if you're well connected with any of the man/woman of the opposite sex. Accuracy of this knowledge is nearly 99% and we would skip in this
article things which cannot be measured & put to pattern (more about it in the end). I would also tell one major reason of the reasons why people get divorced.
Before we go deeper into relationships, let's see what is attractive for the opposite sex. If you're a man:
ATTRACTIVE TO MAN, how to make a man want you, if you're a woman:
ATTRACTIVE TO WOMAN, how to make a woman want you. I don't care whether your a black/white, Indian, Muslim, Christian – it doesn't matter: those are universal rules which are set for any man/woman. Although pressure on each of them is dependent from our own system of beliefs/ our own grade (which we think we have, which may have been affected
by others and probably was) & current state of desire. They work always, because they're pre-programmed on birth. Either you can change the situation (e.g. by becoming confident & wealthy as a man or becoming beautiful [through e.g. various surgeries, using make-up, changing diet, loosing weight] as a woman), by doing so – you increase drastically your chances
on finding a partner.
On those rules (fundamental) is set, other filter – dependable from the birth date (there are 12 filters overall, each for 1 zodiac sign). Please select your, from the list below.
SEDUCE ARIES, men aries, female aries- SEDUCE TAURUS, men taurus,
female taurus
- SEDUCE GEMINI, men gemini, female gemini
- SEDUCE CANCER, men cancer, female cancer
- SEDUCE LEO, men leo, female leo
- SEDUCE VIRGO, men virgo, female virgo
- SEDUCE LIBRA, men libra, female libra
- SEDUCE SCORPIO, men scorpio, female scorpio
- SEDUCE
SAGITTARIUS, men sagittarius, female sagittarius
- SEDUCE CAPRICORN, men capricorn, female capricorn
- SEDUCE AQUARIUS, men aquarius, female aquarius
- SEDUCE PISCES, men pisces, female pisces
+ (expanded version) [see yours & your partner]
- SEX HOROSCOPE, SEDUCE ARIES, men aries, female aries
- SEX HOROSCOPE, SEDUCE TAURUS, men taurus, female taurus
- SEX HOROSCOPE, SEDUCE GEMINI, men gemini, female
gemini
- SEX HOROSCOPE, SEDUCE CANCER, men cancer, female cancer
- SEX HOROSCOPE, SEDUCE LEO, men leo, female leo
- SEX HOROSCOPE, SEDUCE VIRGO, men virgo, female virgo
- SEX HOROSCOPE, SEDUCE LIBRA, men libra, female libra
- SEX HOROSCOPE, SEDUCE SCORPIO, men scorpio, female scorpio
- SEX HOROSCOPE, SEDUCE SAGITTARIUS,
men sagittarius, female sagittarius
- SEX HOROSCOPE, SEDUCE CAPRICORN, men capricorn, female capricorn
- SEX HOROSCOPE, SEDUCE AQUARIUS, men aquarius, female aquarius
- SEX HOROSCOPE, SEDUCE PISCES, men pisces,
female pisces
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I would put only little explanation & lets do it on the example. For instance, I'm a Leo (29.07.1989), so: 1.
SEDUCE LEO, men leo, female leo (& as curiosity:
SEX HOROSCOPE, SEDUCE
LEO, men leo, female leo).
From the #1st link, you've got information that:
With who male Leo feels the best?
Very good with: Leo, Capricorn and Aquarius.
Well with: Aries, Taurus, Libra and Sagittarius.
Neutral: Gemini, Cancer and Sagittarius.
Bad with: Scorpio and Fish.
You've got here information that the partner for me is (or should be), with who I feel the best needs to be born on a zodiac sign of: Leo, Capricorn or Aquarius (that ___I___ feel
Very good with). To be quite honest with you: I've met with one girl (2 times) that had been from the zodiac sign of (one of them): Gemini, Cancer and Sagittarius (I don't remember
exactly, won't check it, because I'd used this knowledge before and knew that, "I feel neutral"). You may say this knowledge has affected my thinking, but hell no: I've really felt very neutral with her, not good – not bad, just neutral. Whether when I've met with (even talking, etc.) Capricorn (off course, the one which suited me the most, woman [see 1st
paragraph about woman "looks" as point of attraction]) – it was like a comparison poor to billionaire (maybe not without comparison, but the difference was just ultra huge, just like – in the terms of feelings). To show you this in pictures, comparison:
this (neutral) to
this (very good).
OFF course, you may say that: "pussy is pussy, you shouldn't put any care/ focus on it". Yes, but keep in mind one simple fact: when you're poor & don't have lots of woman with who you date (at least 3-7 women at a time) and you only meet (even for sex) with one woman: you would fall in love with her (sooner or faster). It's a trap & if you want to consciously fall to
it (as many do), do the right choice. Unless so, don't engage & meet with any woman (to the moment you're not independent financially). Yes, I know – I'm bullshitting, but it's the sad reality: that most of the people choose not wisely (without all this knowledge) & then they think, when it's too late (because you're in trap). Thing is, that you may not have
probably a good comparison, because all you care about is looks & the only, "such as" woman wants you & you take... commonly making very bad choice which would put you on the way of suffering.
Man, take the first girl which is attractive (to him) & wants him. However, when the emotions come to play your in a serious risk of failure in your life & suffering caused by choosing not the right person for you. You want to fuck? Go on prostitutes (as me), but don't ever want to select the wrong person for your relationship, even though if it means resigning
from the girl (yes, I know: I can talk, but you would do what you want to do, without thinking about the possible consequences of bad choice; the same with girls).
People seem to look only on the: what is ATTRACTIVE for them [in opposite sex], not putting focus on 2 or 3 other factors which are essence of any human-connections, in order to preserve happiness.
As a girl you may say: "you can't fit love in pattern, it just happens". A person with such beliefs would experience such thinking (article in the making). Thing is, that everything is a pattern (look at the attraction guidelines, bluff?) &
when you follow the guidelines: you would experience the best & the most, drastically reducing chances of stress, fear,
pain & failure in life.
To put you this in an image: one of my best friends has chosen (or rather she chosen him, because the woman choose their partners in reality; he only accepted it & tried to fuck her) a woman with whom he felt neutral. Result? I think that (as he was speaking all the time for over 2 years about her [LOVE], he took him about 2-3 months of constant weekly meetings to
feel in love with her, but as you know: it takes only time, when 2 people "seem to accept & like" each self, because everyone sees something "valuable" to him, that he/she gets by being in this relationship). Wait, result? Nearly 50 (?), 60 (?) separations & comebacks (fucking, quarrel → separation, comeback after week, two). In this 2 year time, he had 2 or 3
cycles (his currently on 4th) for 1-1.5 month of drinking alcohol (everyday!), because he can't handle with emotions & wants to stop thinking about her. Although, he admitted it was good & fine with her (which is love) at first.
If you want advice: if you want to "un-love" start to see all the bad situations, mistakes, bad behavior, defects in other person,
only. Woman may un-love in a week, you suffer for couple months at minimum (up to a year, if you don't come back to memories with her & don't meet).
I never personally say a word, because it's LOVE & people don't think rationally (I was too, once in Love – I know).
Thing is, that for me personally: it's too high stake for the... pussy.
So, take a look on those 2 factors before you would engage in anything. If not – just end the relationship now, tell the truth (you're not suited for me), block her & all (until its not too late). It's your choice whether you would use this knowledge with mind or not. Please only ensure you won't tell everyone that all the woman are whores, are bad & suffer when
chosen badly.
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Although, I didn't wanted to write about this...
What I wanted to really write in this article is the one unknown by anyone (barely) very important thing, which is not visible on the first appearance.
(BTW. If you're in a relationship & you're "well connected", meaning [from '
'theories' [tables] above: you, "very good feels with" her) and something isn't right, it may be:
GODLIKEISM Kabbalistic "Bread of Shame" (explanation). How to understand the invisible schemes beyond? [you've
activated it] & please ensure you're not violating the teaching in this paragraph, because if so – it has priority over it).
Life partner (opposite sex) must be the same as you – introvert or extravert, so you would both gain energy for being by yourself alone (introvert) or with people (extravert). I know it may sound badly, but only at the first impression. It's simple, take a look on the explanation below.
Each person represents only one: is either a introvert (which gains energy from focusing on "self": his own thoughts, ideas & his "inner world") or a extravert (which gains energy from being with other people, surrounding himself with them). It's conditioned from the dominance of some parts of the brain. You can be either intro or extra-vert.
When you're not living with each self, only met once a time, it's not visible if you don't know it or don't know on what to look. However, the problem is unsolvable & the true danger is that you would separate when coming to live together (e.g. when the LOVE would result in child). Why? If one partner gets energy from being with people (extravert) & another gets
energy from being left alone – 1 person would drain another person (from energy), making it impossible for the introvert to function. It would not last much and
couldn't last in the long term under any circumstances. Why? You're an introvert? Imagine not having a second on having time with your thoughts (as I experience & am). Extravert? Lock
yourself for a month, alone (paradoxically for a introvert it would be a dream-like situation).
For example, it may seem attractive to have such partner for a while, however keep in mind that in the long term it would be draining for both of you & the differences would never be reconciled. You would not like the "closeness" of the introvert & for the introvert it would be draining to not have time to focus on his own thoughts & his inner world (silence).
(I would repeat it one more time)
The difference is basically simple: each of you gets energy from various sources, one → from being with others, second → by being left alone. IT CAN NEVER MATCH.
Either you would find introvert+introvert or either any relationship would break soon (or rather when you would come to live with yourself, as its basically not visible in the meetings, only when living under 1 roof).
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I think that 90% of separation cases, when it comes to 'characters difference' are brought to attractiveness & feeling good with other person. Know it, before you engage.
Remember that you are in reality on one side & this difference (introvert+extravert) is not to be skipped, because itself alone would ruin all.
Nobody is better: everyone is just different and you need to accept those differences.
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(from: WIKIPEDIA, translated – http://pl.wikipedia.org/wiki/Introwersja & http://pl.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ekstrawersja)
How to get to know somebody is introvert?
Introverts usually:
- gain energy when they are alone, and losing among men,
- derive energy from the inner world, ie, feelings, ideas, impressions,
are good listeners,
- think before you do or say,
- maintain eye contact more when listening to someone, than when talking to him,
- have little interest, but in each delve very interested,
- only deep relationships with others is called "friendship"
- prefer to talk face to face than in the group,
- speak slowly, with interruptions,
- need to be focused silence, not like when they interrupted the work or any other activities (eg, phone ringing)
- benefit from long-term memory, which often have a feeling "light-headedness," and may have trouble finding the right words during a conversation.
- better than extroverts to cope with tasks that require attention,
- studies perform better than extroverts,
- easier to learn by reading than by talking with other
- prefer joke reveals impropriety and mismatch,
- they work the same way regardless of whether they are praised or not,
- do not like to call "weather"
- may have difficulty in remembering faces and names,
Introversion and the nervous system
In introverts dominant part of the parasympathetic autonomic nervous system, therefore, may:
- have difficulty mobilizing for action
- under stress react slowly
- behave calmly and soberly, and may slow walk, eat, talk
- have to take a break to recover energy
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How to get to know somebody is introvert?
Extroverts typically:
- gain energy when staying with others, and they lose when they are alone,
draw energy from the external world, ie undertaken projects, people, places and things that are in contact,
- first do or say something and then think when you speak or think,
maintain more eye contact when speaking with the caller, than when listening,
- have many interests,
- speak quickly,
- benefit from short-term memory,
- perform better than introverts in primary school,
- work better when they are praised,
- prefer nonsensical joke.
Extraversion, in contrast to introversion, consists of the following characteristics:
- sociability
- liveliness
- activity
- search experience
Extraversion and nervous system
For extroverts dominate some sympathetic autonomic nervous system, therefore, may:
- not in full control of behavior in stressful situations
- have large deposits of energy, which could translate into such greater physical activity,
- not feel the hunger for a long time, as opposed to introverts,
- feel uncomfortable during a long rest,
not withstand the pace of life, resulting in fatigue, aversion to life, midlife crisis.
Rest is
similar thinking & goals although its a topic for separate article...
As an example, the only life partner which I can take is (from zodiac) Capricorn (only for the person born on: 29.07.1989). Think why...
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