People who are hugely egoistic, focused only on self – never seem to get the needed fulfilment & pleasure from life as people who are not. They're mainly focused on receival & not giving. Seems very similar to you? We're all born with the will to receive – it's all a natural desire, but as the practice shows – we're only desired to receive when we
transform our nature from the will to receive to will to bestow. As we would become more as God, who can only give. It's the whole secret.
It doesn't ends there. As you can check in the real-life, people only receive from others when they show at least initial interest in them & full acceptance towards. No person in this world would be interested fully in you, if you would not be interested in him (at least in some part). People disdain people who are only self-centered on themselves, talking about THEIR
achievements, THEIR things in life & often those people aren't liked (deep down). It's how this Universe & Laws in them were created, so the primary goal of you would be to change your nature from the one focused on taking, to the one of focused on giving. Only then you would experience qualities of life, you're seeking.
Furthermore, I would add a clandestine secret:
everyone has pre-built something in which he could become the best in & to be rewarded both: spiritually [by contribution of "µ"] & financially at the highest possible to imagine for you: point. If
you would ask the top performers in every field, why they are so successful, the only answer you would get would be: because I've found what I love to do & I do it. Meaning, which is equal [conceived] (in other explanation): I don't get tired in this work, it's pure pleasure & I could do it whole day. When a person like such (who has found it), does it – he does
it in the best possible for her way, barely not becoming tired, as everyone knows – from job which is without a higher purpose & just not suitable for us. We could do it all day & we receive satisfaction & financial rewards from it.
So if you're main desire is to fuck woman, maybe you should think about porn-star career? You would fuck pretty woman, all day long. I would only add, that nobody wants to become one, in reality – deep inside of it (for example: me, not) & here we get to the other more important point, which would explain question:
Why people loose their motivations? Why they
get very fast demotivated by all this "pursue"?
The answer lies in the motivations behind. Their motivations are
external, meaning that for example they want a car or something for which they need to work, but they
don't feel it. It's equal to something which don't comes naturally: working on something to get something, but with the notice that the work you do – it's not suitable for you & you
just don't feel it. It comes often with "climbing the mountain", but this is the wrong mountain you want to climb in reality, but you don't know it now.
If you still don't get, what I'm talking off: imagine, that the things you're motivated by, should be the things you would get in the process of realizing
internal motivations, the ones which come deeply from the
desire of your spirit, not from the desire of having or belonging. However, keep in mind that they're always, require work & effort to find
them, may not come naturally (to be found) & also they require lots of effort, dyscipline & mental process thought – very often, a volutontuary work for years in order for them to come to fruition (or to: visible results).
The process may take years & for sure it would be a long term one. An example of that was, I presume the best: portayed in the movie National.Geographic.Apocalypse.The.Rise.of.Hitler.1of2.Becoming.Hitler & National.Geographic.Apocalypse.The.Rise.of.Hitler.2of2.The.Fuehrer (or rather: story of) Adolf Hitler, who had a vision, sticked with it & realized it. You may see
on how many
Law of Attraction processes, he has passes in order for this vision to become his reality. Adolf Hitler was the biblical antichrist – the program of the Universe itself, that had the purpose of dealing great damage to the
humanity, for the stake of becoming more excellent one, to inspire growth & in result:
increase in the people morality. This mechanism appears cyclically over time, but the foundators of them are different.
By never finding your higher purpose you're condemned on realizing the higher purposes of others. Commonly, never becoming satisfied from yourself.
This article is the completement of the movie series:
How to become rich. You would probably find helpful:
Test on Life Intelligence (IQ test).
What is need to mentioned, is the fact that you operate by a program, which is barely a
vision filter on your mind which is sum of your beliefs & convictions, that has been
deeply-routed seeded in your mind. Without changing it (which would replace your thinking patterns, on the ones of the: world class), you won't
achieve more. The only "cheat" to that (or a shortcut) is the instalment of the new subconscious programming, which deploys success patterns in your bahavior (& thinking). The one that its used by me & its probably the most effective & just: best, is the:
psy* subc. programming.
Keep in mind also, that the higher is your vision (& you've got qualities [programming, again], & means) to realize it, to influence & touch the widest range of the people – the more your rewards would be. Do the work, that you suppose to do in order to win the happiness in your & others life. It's the work only you can do. Wish you great!
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