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How to handle yourself with "what they think" or "shame"?

How to handle yourself with "what they think" or "shame"? Edit

Andrzej Jeziorski · 431 user posts · 26 user answers

I would say that 90% of people (or even more) are sick on disease "what other people would think about them" if they would do X or Y. I've had it in past too – it comes for low self-esteem. How to handle with it? How to handle with shame? 
 
<div class='r' style='padding-left:10px'><img src='http://path-of-power.com/i/275/thinking_guy.jpg' alt='what others think'/></div>Well, you must understand one simple rule: nobody about you don't cares the way you do. NOBODY cares about you, people don't give a damn about you – they can't help you until you help yourself. If you would understand that you can go forward. 
 
As I've promised on the beginning of the article I would give you a permanent solution for this problem. <h3>START TO ACT WITH CONFIDENCE AS A REALLY CONFIDENT MAN AND START TO THINK* ABOUT YOURSELF AS A SUCCESSFUL, HAPPY. BECOME THE OPPOSITE WHAT YOU'RE NOW, PERSIST AT THIS AND NEVER TURN BACK.</h3> All starts within thinking (you must persist at this 100% at least 3 months to notice the effects*). 
 
If you would think rationally there is no logic reason for feeling shame for your desires or "what they would think" really doesn't matter. It really doesn't matters: what they would/or think. It doesn't matter what people say about you. It's good that they're thinking about you in any way that never. 
 
Going deeper if you're suffering on: "what they think" plague you see that you can't develop yourself or go in directions where you wanted to go. Another excuse? It doesn't matter what anybody thinks about you, only what matters is: what you think about yourself! 
 
Prologue: you would find that after breaking the first wall and starting to do things which you always wanted to do would change thinking in those people and they would start to admire you for your carelessness about other people thinking about you (paradoxically).

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Well, you must understand one simple rule: nobody about you don't cares the way you do. NOBODY cares about you, people don't give a damn about you – they can't help you until you help yourself. If you would understand that you can go forward.

As I've promised on the beginning of the article I would give you a permanent solution for this problem.

START TO ACT WITH CONFIDENCE AS A REALLY CONFIDENT MAN AND START TO THINK* ABOUT YOURSELF AS A SUCCESSFUL, HAPPY. BECOME THE OPPOSITE WHAT YOU'RE NOW, PERSIST AT THIS AND NEVER TURN BACK.

All starts within thinking (you must persist at this 100% at least 3 months to notice the effects*).

If you would think rationally there is no logic reason for feeling shame for your desires or "what they would think" really doesn't matter. It really doesn't matters: what they would/or think. It doesn't matter what people say about you. It's good that they're thinking about you in any way that never.

Going deeper if you're suffering on: "what they think" plague you see that you can't develop yourself or go in directions where you wanted to go. Another excuse? It doesn't matter what anybody thinks about you, only what matters is: what you think about yourself!

Prologue: you would find that after breaking the first wall and starting to do things which you always wanted to do would change thinking in those people and they would start to admire you for your carelessness about other people thinking about you (paradoxically). Edit